Suprises
July 31, 2007 at 5:06 pm | In Mexico | 3 CommentsDay two has been great! Jason led the group in a worship song, and everyone is participating well with the kids in the escuela biblica. Suprisingly most everyone slept pretty well, except for Jeff who got up at 5am and couldnt go back to bed.
A couple of suprises have happened. Kibsa (our bilingual contact) is busy with school and work and not really around much. This means our lack of Spanish is more problematic. We are all doing really well though. Especially Jason and Jeff who, without knowing really anything, are trying very hard.
Also, there was an accident a few days ago which led to the entire colony we are in not having any running water. Not for showers, not for washing hands, not even for toilets. We have to walk 15 minutes to a bathroom…or explore alternate options which shall remain unsaid!
The final suprise – apparantly I am on the schedule to preach not once, but twice. Tonight and on Friday! Again, Kibsa is not around to translate so I have to preach in Spanish.
I love Mexico!
Aqui Estamos
July 30, 2007 at 6:53 pm | In Mexico | Leave a CommentWe have arrived here in D.F. (Mexico City) safe and sound. After an early flight and a lot of travelling we are finally settling down.
Our first notable language mistake was mine, when I was trying to say that I couldnt get the words out of my mouth, but accidently replaced the word for mouth (boca)with cow (vaca). Jason accidently went in to kiss a guy b.c. he didn{t understand that part of the culture. The guy set him straight pretty quick!
Anyway, my email wouldnt come up so this is my official communication to home. Kristan and Nolan, I love you. Kris – would you shoot Jenn Chauncey an email letting her know that Jeff is ok…in his words he is a -praise machine-…I guess that means he is doing well.
More to come soon.
Mexico
July 29, 2007 at 9:12 pm | In Mexico | Leave a CommentWe leave early tomorrow morning. I hope to be able to blog at least once a day from an internet cafe around the corner. Keep posted for prayer requests and stories from the field.
Much love.
Mladen’s Message
July 29, 2007 at 9:11 pm | In Community | Leave a CommentAlright, Mladen is the man! He really brought a great message to everyone today about the importance of commitment to your vision. Vision is common. Commitment isn’t. In college just about every guy (mainly this happens in males) wants to go out and knock the Earth off its axis. We entertained visions (or daydreams) of 3rd world mission trips where entire countries respond to the Gospel. It was thrilling to just sit around and talk about all the huge things God was calling us to do!
It really impressed Christian girls too.
Its sad how few of these dreams getted traded in for “life”. 5 years out of college most dreamers have migrated into their left brains and set up shop logically figuring out how to pay off college loans. There are a few reasons why this happens.
1. God calls a lot of people to be passionate, sold-out, members of the congregation. However, you never hear anyone ever talk about a dream just be a “part” of the church. Our big dreams always seem to include us in the limelight. However, for every dreamer needs help. Using the church as a body metaphor, I would love to hear one young Christian talk about his calling to be chest hair of the church.
2. We exchange our dreams for jobs. I have a lot of great friends who are living their dreams in a “secular” job. I hesitate to call it secular, b/c the people I am talking redeem their jobs and make them as much a ministry as pastoring. Often times, however, people trade in the big dreams for paying bills.
3. Unwillingness to commit. Exchanging the great for the good. These people want to take the plunge, but they are too busy looking before they leap. Dreams hurt. You don’t stumble butt-backwards into changing the world, unless you do something colossally stupid like the guy responsible for bringing killer bees to the Americas. You don’t want to be that guy. Butt-backwards almost always changes the world negatively.
God’s dreams take commitment. They take passionate Christians willing to put down the TV remote, get off the couch and go impact some lives!
“4 days!” or “Hal makes me want to be a better man”
July 27, 2007 at 6:30 pm | In Community | Leave a Comment4 days ago I wrote a blog where I spent more time on the last line than the other two paragraphs. Sitting at my computer trying to decide how many laps I would set as a goal I first typed 20…then 15….then 20 again. That was moments after I had just put together 10 laps for the first time this summer so I was on a high. Honestly, I have never been good at accomplishing exercise goals so I was a little hesitant.
Hal quickly jumped on board with me towards this goal and started pushing me harder than I really wanted to go. Today, with a 100% nod to Hal and his accountability, I was able to put together 25 laps! Seriously, 4 days ago the lifeguard was practically swimming alongside of me on lap 8…just in case. Kristan swam the first 10 with me, then left to feed Nolan. My final 15 laps were quicker than my first 10. I probably could have pushed myself to 30, but I am saving that milestone for a day Hal and I are swimming together.
Hal, thanks dude! You are the man! This is seriously a great example of why I totally believe that any goal we set as a church can be accomplished. If you can get this lazy bum to swim that far there is something special going on.
Love letter to Kristan as she feeds Nolan at 3 in the morning while her husband sleeps soundly.
July 27, 2007 at 2:28 am | In Misc | 1 CommentAmazing head rubs. The way she treats Nolan. The way she treats me. How she laughs at everything almost everything I say. Her hair. Her toes. Everything in between. Oh! The way she will lay in bed with me for hours after she is wide awake (thats really cool). Allowing me to always almost always pick the movies. These beautiful moments like tonight when we went on a walk. Her obsession with flossing that reminds me how great of teeth Nolan will have. The last 3 1/2 years of marriage. The 2 years of dating before that. How much she loves her family. Her indescribable babblings in the middle of the night like, “all my love for you wouldn’t fit inside a super walmart”. How much she loves Cheesecakes by Alex. Her heart for others. Her heart for me. How she makes me better at almost everything I try to do. I love how she somehow ALWAYS wins at Yahtzee! Ok, I don’t love that; I love the look on her face when she wins though. Its kind of a mixture of satisfaction and regret. Her singing voice. Every now and then she will spend an entire day making Tacos al Pastor for me. When she holds my hand I remember what I always wanted out of marriage. She has never once tried to come into the bathroom while I was performing a number below 3 (I still don’t get why anyone would want to do that). How she laughs at herself when she makes a joke! The passion she has for making people comfortable. Her friendship. Her example. How she inspires me to walk closer with God than I did yesterday. Her love of family prayer time. Her ability to forgive. I love how she will spend hours on finding the right picture for the right frame for the right spot on a wall that no one sees but us. How being with her makes me want to eat healthier and excersise just so I can spend more years being loved by her.
Her willingness to appreciate a cheesy blog post as the love letter that it is intended to be.
Kristan, you will probably read this in an hour when you are feeding Nolan and I am sound asleep. I love you. Thank you for loving me so well!
3 on 3
July 26, 2007 at 9:21 pm | In Chuch Planting, Community | Leave a CommentAwesome time tonight guys! Not only was our prayer time exactly what I needed, but afterwards God did an amazing work that alleviated most of my frustration! Jason, Will and I went on a walk to talk some about issues we were facing. On the last leg of the walk we pass a teenage kid shooting ball in his driveway. We were all thinking the same thing: community time!
We start up a game of 2 on 2 when Hal and Cassi turn the corner on their jog. 3 on 3! The game only lasted a couple of minutes before our new friends mother came out and called him inside, but it was great to live out the whole idea of outreach in The Patio. Life.
Simple.
Tonight for Mexico
July 26, 2007 at 1:20 pm | In The Patio | 1 CommentI love Thursday nights! It’s a night of prayer, fun, and discussing issues relevent to The Patio. Most Thursdays we don’t even really need to talk about too much. We just need to spend time with each other.
Tonight though we are having a prayer time for the Mexico trip. I am more excited about this time down to D.F. than just about any other trip. Maybe its the group dynamic or the timing of the trip, but a big part is that I am absolutely convinced that God is going to do something amazing next week. I don’t know that it will be something measurable like seeing 100 kids pray to recieve Christ or if it will simply be a connection had with the Father that refreshes and strengthens me.
You don’t have to outswim the shark…you just have to outswim Hal
July 24, 2007 at 7:45 pm | In Community | Leave a Comment10 laps! It wasn’t pretty, but I am halfway to my goal of being able to do 20 laps in the pool. Today was a beautiful picture of encouragement in the body of Christ. Hal wanted to stop at 5, but I pushed him on. Then I wanted to stop at 8 and he pushed me on. Then I wanted to stop at 9, but Hal wouldn’t let me quit there either.
It was great, as long as we don’t talk about how long the whole ten laps took us.
1/17
July 24, 2007 at 1:36 pm | In Parenting | 3 Comments10 lbs. 6oz.
That’s how much Nolan weighed in at today. He is growing fast. All of a sudden Nolan is 1/17 of his daddy.
1/17 the sarcasm
1/17 the temper
1/17 the laziness
1/17 the competitiveness
It’s no coincidence that God is convicting me now on my health. He is using Nolan to push me to be the example that a father is called to be for his son. Paul said to the Corinthians, “follow me as I follow Christ”.
It would be easy to fake it. To tell Nolan to be healthy, loving, peaceful, passionate…
a Christ-follower.
Thats directing, not leading. Leading is living in a way that people can follow. Any idiot can direct their kids on how to live. It takes a commitment to the journey to lead them there yourself.
I don’t want Nolan to become some sarcastic, out of shape bum who acts like a jerk when he loses. I want him to be passionate and content; hard-working yet laid back; full of grace and encouraging. I want Nolan to reflect Christ in his life in such a real way that others will say, “Follow Nolan as he follows Christ”.
The wonderful thing is I just have to be on the journey myself if I am to lead him there. Also, I know that he is growing up in the best community of faith I could ever ask for him. Where I am lacking in grace, Kristan abounds. Where I am sometimes lazy, Mladen and Hal exemplify hard work.
Thanks to all of you who are such a great example for Nolan (and me)
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